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Preparing for retirement

Retire from the job, not from the people

A career hands you people every day. Colleagues, clients, the regulars at the Tuesday meeting. Retirement gives you time, and quietly takes away the routine that kept all those relationships running.

Simmer replaces that routine with a small daily habit. It reminds you who you haven't spoken to in a while, helps you remember what's going on in their lives, and makes reaching out the easiest part of your day.

Two old friends laughing together in a backyard

The calendar empties. Your circle shouldn't.

The hardest part of retiring is rarely the work. It's the daily contact that goes with it. Staying close to former colleagues, old friends, and far-flung family takes intention now, where it used to happen on its own.

The good news is that you finally have room in your day for real conversations. A few minutes is plenty, and Simmer helps you spend them on the right people.

How Simmer helps in this next chapter

Time for the people who matter
Simmer suggests one person at a time, with enough context to decide whether to reach out now or move on. No lists to manage and nothing to maintain.
Keep every thread alive
Grandkids' games, a friend's surgery, a former colleague's new venture. Notes keep the details close so you can follow up like it matters, because it does.
A rhythm that fits your day
Set nudges for morning coffee, the afternoon walk, or whenever suits you. Simmer fits the day you actually want to have.

How Simmer works

A small daily habit

You set the goal: reach out to one to five people a day. Easy to understand, hard to keep up on your own. Simmer holds you to it, a few minutes at a time.

iOS notification from Simmer reading: Give Sergio a reason to smile. We never really know what the people around us are going through. Sometimes just saying hello can make a huge difference.
Step 1

A gentle nudge

Each morning Simmer nudges you toward the goal you chose: follow through, follow up, or step up.

Simmer bio card for a contact named Daniel Higgins showing his photo and context tags: Corte Madera, CA, USA, Meridian Payments Team, and June.
Step 2

One person, with context

Open Simmer and it will remind you about someone from your contacts, context to jog your memory, suggested conversation starters, and topics you could reflect on.

Simmer bio card for a contact named Daniel Higgins showing his photo and context tags: Corte Madera, CA, USA, Meridian Payments Team, and June.
Simmer bio card for a contact named Jane Rivera showing a monthly cadence and context tags: Meridian Payments Team, Meridian Software, Staff Engineer, May, Portland, OR, and USA.
Step 3

Reach out, or skip

Decide to reach out to that person, or swipe to skip them for now and try someone else. It can be enough to just say, "Hi."

iOS notification from Simmer reading: Did you connect with Terry? What has Terry been up to?
Step 4

Pause and jot it down

After you connect, Simmer helps you remember to pause for a moment and capture notes, and set follow up topics with due dates.

iOS notification from Simmer reading: Time to get started. 1 more connection to hit your goal today.
Step 5

Reach your goal for the day

Keep going, connect or skip forward until you hit your outreach goal for the day.

Simmer goal celebration message with the Simmer flame reading: You met your goal today! See you tomorrow!
Step 6

Everyone stays close

Show up like this, one small touch at a time, and your whole network stays warm.

Be there for all of it

Simmer is $49 a year, or $5 a month, with no ads and no feed. Decades of relationships deserve better than fading away with the commute.

Be there.